Just for Music

郭富城 and 巫啟賢 are both coming to Singapore in September and October respectively. So, i shall introduce some of their nice songs!
In addition, i will like to share another classic bonus track, 跟往事干杯 by 姜育恆

郭富城
Heavenly King. After all these years, still the charming and suave Aaron that we knew since young. Most importantly, his dazzling and ravishing dances are back. Not a bad singer, but more recognised for his beefy and sexy build. 42 this year, but he is definitely hot stuff!
This is one of my favourite songs from 郭富城...

查無此人 - 郭富城


巫啟賢
Underrated singer. Not many people actually identify him as a great singer. Most of his songs are heavy-hearted and grief-strickened love songs. Definitely not in favour of those heartbroken people!
I am definitely honoured to share the same birthday as him, and also attended the same Junior College as him too...
Do you believe that 傷心的人更傷心?
Well, that's my favourite 巫啟賢 song.
I do believe...

傷心的人更傷心 - 巫啟賢


跟往事干杯 - 姜育恆


"Anyone interested to go 郭富城 or 巫啟賢 concert? Or both?"

The Green Organisation - Part1

Apparently, there is this particular organisation in our country that people seemed to denounce and stigmatise.
The Green Organisation.
Oh, but be mindful that this organisation is actually recognised as the most dynamic, most competent, most capable and most potent force in South East Asia.
Surely not a force to reckoned with!
Clearly in conjunction with the name of the organisation, it overseas the whole Ecosystem of our country. From the wholly Garden City to the Botanical Garden and the Neighbourhood Parks, for it is omnipresent, but its wherabouts are classified.
The organisation seems to be so environmental conscious that every personnel wears green. Futhermore, it has numerous advertisements and posters pinned up in bus stops, train stations etc, to flaunt its authority and greatness.
ABOVE SELF, BEYOND DUTY.
NOT FOR FAME OR FORTUNE.
FROM THIS LAND WE ARE MADE, FOR THIS LAND WE WILL FIGHT.
For we, commuters, look on with our eyebrows raised.
Some don't even bother to look.
Brilliant, splendid, ouststanding, superb and so eminent that people don't even need to look to hail its grandeur!
Employment is simple.
It involves 2 phases.
Phase 1: Any young, healthy and fit - abled - male person above the age of 18 years old is eligible for enrollment. Contract lasts 2 years.
Phase 2: After fulfilling your phase 1 contract, you will be allowed to leave. You will be classified under Nature Reserves, but subjected to a mandatory clause of re-employment once/twice or more every year(Depends on which department you are in). Re-employment usually lasts for about a week, and if you are lucky enough, the organisation might even send you for overseas ventures and enterprises! Bless you!

Let us take a look at some of the common abbreviations used in this organisation(in hierarchical order from highest to lowest). In this case, we shall look at a small Neighbourhood Park:

• Cheerful Orchid - CO : Wonder what is so good about the day? Ask him. He is always smiling. No matter what situation he is in, he always maintains a cheerful disposition. Most importantly, just by smiling, he can get all the things done! Rarely get to meet him. Appears only in major business functions. Favourite shoutout: "Well done guys! Good job!"
• Oblivion Chrysanthemum - OC : The man who is always there but nowhere to be found. His presence is always felt. Mysterious? Ask him how he do it. "Is OC in today? i need to let him sign some documents." "Ya he is in. But he went off for meeting with CO." Favourite shoutout: "Ehh gentlemen, later i got to go for a meeting at..."
• Chronic Slogging Magnolia - CSM : Allegedly the most feared person in terms of flora cultivation. Maintains high level of cultivation discipline. Deals with plant behaviours, plant hygiene, plant sanitation, plant welfare and many others. Plans the work schedule for fellow workers. He is also the Master of Parade, i.e: during any flower exhibition or display, he is the chief in-charge of the whole event, acquires the power to overwhelm even his superiors! He is one of the busiest person in this industry, slogging the whole day, running around the grounds to chase cats and dogs, which also makes him a very skillful Archer as he can shoot numerous arrows at one shot, anytime anyplace. Usually he will finish all his arrows and leave none for himself, so that he can go for more canteen breaks and smoking breaks. Favourite shoutout: "You go and sign 3 extras..."
• Perilous Carnation - PC : Almost, if not, agreebly the same type as OC. But he is more dangerous, because he is closer to all the workers. He acts as if he knows his stuffs well, acts nice in front of his workers, but ultimately he has hidden agendas. Basically, he is a very well trained actor and he Only Can Shout. His hands cannot be dirty, as they are solely for holding pens and papers only. He is always busy, but you can never justify that, because he is always away, always going for never-ending meetings. Favourite shoutout: same as OC
• Possessed Sunflower - PS : He is sometimes nice, sometimes bad. His role is to assist the CSM. When he is nice, everything seems possible and negotiable, on the other hand, when he is bad, he seems to be possessed by CSM. He takes care of the welfare of the plants in his department. Favourite shoutout: "Eh 有烟吗？走lei一起去抽烟lei..."
• Shit Garner Tulip - SGT (Sometimes called SC) : Neither here nor there. You can say "stucked in between". The most likely victims of the arrows. Sometimes out of the blue got hit by multiple arrows. No room for mercy, because no one can save you. The word 'Theory' is never in their dictionary. In fact, they do not have any dictionary! No pens and papers, as the middle finger is what their hands can offer best! "Get your hands and legs moving!" Hands are meant for mud and feet are meant for blisters! No time for rules and protocols, just get the job done! Favourite shoutout: Any other form of cursing and swearing languages.
• Grass - Men : The lowest form of being ever existed. Basically, a slave. Just carry out whatever that is instructed by superiors. Moreover, it can be considered a Blessing in Disguise. Most importantly - No responsibilties to shoulder. But usually they have to succumb to "suck thumb" situations. The only time you see them smiling is when they are looking for superiors to endorse their off-passes/medical appointments/medical leaves. Favourite shoutout: "Eh Sir, we got how many days off..." and also most likely followed by an outburst of flowery languages.

Be Decisive!
Join The Decisive Force!

"...for more information regarding The Green Organisation, please visit http://www.endass.sg/, rememeber your Login ID and password!"

爱情的模样/魔鬼！

~爱情的模样~
有人说：“爱很简单”
爱情本来应该就是简简单单的，因为我相信简单爱也是一种美丽。
可是我们在寻找这简单爱的过程中，这所谓的‘简单爱’已经并不简单了。

有多少人为情而流泪，为情失眠，甚至失去了一切，到头来还不是回到原点。
什么天长地久，什么爱你一万年，什么真爱？
我只担心等不到！

没有一个人是不需要爱情。
往往缘分就在你的附近，只是我们没有把握。
以真诚而恳切对待彼此。
只有真心才能显出真爱。

只有真爱才经得起各种考验。
没有经过考验的爱不是真爱。
考验让彼此的爱更坚强。
风雨无阻。

说这么多，有谁能办得到？
这世界根本都没有完美的爱情。
没有人的爱情是十全十美的。

只有你心目中的她，才是永远的完美。

这就是爱情。

~爱情的魔鬼~
我们在情场上往往都会碰见好多种人。
有时候我们也不知不觉成了其中之一。

1. Player - 很会‘玩’人，玩到别人Buay Tahan，很会act blur，Gei Si，很会风流。
2. Conman - 采取欺骗的方式来使人感动而相信，通常都是以年龄比较小的人下手。
3. General - 爱情将军，情场得意，百发百中。
4. Stone - 木头，Bo Chup，什么感觉也没有，什么都是normal la, friends only la。
5. Puppet - 爱情傀儡，被人‘玩’到Buay Tahan，失去了控制，而且是心甘情愿的。
6. Slave - 爱情的奴隶， 一直被困在情网里，Buay Ding Dang，受伤最严重的。
7. Noob - 什么都不懂，什么都不会，从来没有爱过。

你又是属于哪一种呢？
这七种人当中，我们该小心哪一些呢？
最主要的是第1和2的人。
尤其是第2种的人！
虽然我也很讨厌第1种的人，可是我就是故意要讲这第2种的人。
许多无辜的受害者已经陷入了魔鬼的掌心！
哈！
幸好到现在我还没有见过这种人。
如果你们认识这种人，请让我知道ok？？
我也想见见这个人的模样！

“看到女人就吃，看到男人就Smash！”

谢谢你的爱

谢谢你的爱1999 - 谢霆锋


謝謝你的愛 - 劉德華


“哪一首比较好听？”

欢迎！Sorry No Party!

最近我刚刚允许Jun参入我的blog。
Silent_Assasin就是Jun。
欢迎加入，从今天起你也是这个blog的贡献者之一。
说到这里，我也要谢谢Siong。因为是他教我怎么add authors的。
这种东西Siong最厉害的，他认第二，没有人敢认第一！

哈哈哈！

可是最好笑的是，Siong既然叫我让他加入。
为什么你每次喜欢开party来join in the fun？
打麻将看别人打清一色‘九张包索’，你也要开party来跟人家biah清一色‘万’，差一点害到别人。看来你是一个很喜欢party的人！Dua Party Gia!

好了不要讲太多，可是真的很抱歉不能让你加入。再说，你自己都有blog了，而且你的blog真的是sibei Hiong，我的那里比的上你的？这么多你的小妹妹's的links，我们要link你都Hiong到有error。JunJie是因为他自己没有blog，所以我让他跟我一起共用，你有你自己的blog已经够了la。Paisei 我是不喜欢party的。

“我已经不Hiong了，我变乖了。”- 等久！

Karaoke Top 5 (Bastard Version)

These are the Top 5 songs that i will like to recommend to all out there when you go karaoke.
It's a must for every karaoke session!
You can try them, but its only applicable if you are as bastard as me...

爱的主打歌 - 蕭亞軒

Actually, we don't really sing this song. Sometimes we just let it play over and over again for one reason - Just to see Elva! She is simply irresistible, gorgeous and hot! Just watch her dance in the MTV. Trust me, your imaginations will go wild!

Ratings: Sibei HOT.

轧车 - 五月天

This one is another favourite. Confirm plus chop will sing. Never fail to sing it in any of our karaoke outings. Make sure to turn up the volume too. But a piece of advice: Don't sing it too early, leave it for the later part, if not, you may just lose your voice.

Ratings: Sibei SONG.

神啊救救我 - 陈小春

This song is only for people who are very cynical about life. Like me. Just remember to take note of the lyrics. 人生是黑白的 = “人生是JiBye的！”

Ratings: Sibei Bastard.

再會吧!我的心上人 - 動力火車

Wa! This one even worse than 轧车! If you already lose your voice from singing 轧车, then i advice you not to try this. It's even much more SONG! Classic! Every karaoke session sure must have! But remember to leave it for the very last. Unfortunately i can't find any videos, but just by listening, you can feel it!

Ratings: Gan Phua SONG

恋曲1990 - 罗大佑

Finally this song! Ha! We call this the 'never ending song'! You can forget about going home. Try the 1980 and the 2000 version too. Every 10 years sure got a new version, I am waiting for his 2010 version. It's really never ending...it just goes on and on and on and on and on...

Ratings: Sibei Buay Tahan

福建歌 - 最爽！

刚刚不久，在六月的时候，五月天在新加坡开了演唱会。我们本来有两张$88的票，可是不知为什么，不想去看，结果把票卖给别人。
也许是没有钱，或者是没兴趣，但是我认为主要原因是因为我们对他们前一次的演唱会(2005年)感到有一点失望。
那时的演唱会是在EXPO举办。我，KaiJie, KaiWen, SiongChie, Stanley 和 XuXian 一起去看。买了$98 的票。
演唱会并不是很差，可以算是不错，只是我们觉得还是不够“爽”，还可以更好！那时在EXPO的音乐设备还有些不理想，听起来有一点象‘歌台’的感觉。
最重要的是，他们已经很少唱以前的那些闽南语(福建)歌了，大多数都是唱新歌。有几首我们很想听的福建歌，他们都没唱，感到有点遗憾。再说，现在五月天的新歌，都是比较普遍性的，好象有点失去了他们以前的风格。
我想这也不难怪，因为新加坡现在的年轻人都很少听他们的福建歌(甚至有些人都听不懂)，所以有好几首歌在我国并不是很受欢迎。自然的，五月天在新加坡的演唱会就会比较少唱福建歌(台湾的就不同lo!)。
我看现在也不容易再听到他们唱那些歌了，所以我就自己找出来听！以下是我最喜欢的4首五月天的歌(全部都是福建歌)。。。

第一：憨人


第二：好不好


第三：I Love You 无望


第四：有你的将来


“是按怎那会这爽！”

Reminiscence - Part1C

1998 BPGHS Secondary 106:

~Hack~
I can't really remember the details clearly.
But definately this time Liu is the victim. (Haha!)
I remembered last time we were still using the Dial-up internet connection.
Out of the blue, we just decided to hack Liu's internet account.
Me, SiongChie and YongXian were the culprits.
If i am not wrong Siong is the one who managed to obtain Liu's IC number.
We went to Siong's house and phoned the customer service.
Reset Liu's internet password.
Somehow he discovered that we hacked his internet account.
And Gimson was on his side.
Following that incident, there was quite a hefty conflict between me and Gimson.
And I recalled that there was a few confrontations as well.
Quite surprised that JunJie wasn't involved.
Heh.

~World Cup '98~
It was the World Cup Season.
I bought the original copy of the World Cup '98 game.
I remembered it cost around $90+.
(Means quite alot to me that time, till now i still have it under my desk)
Another strife between me and Gimson.
It started like this...
I remembered very cleary that time me and JunJie went to Gimson's house.
I brought along that World Cup '98 game to his house.
After playing for a few hours in his house, we left.
When i reached home, i realised that i lost my World Cup '98 game.
I asked JunJie about it, but he did not take it.
So i assumed that i left it in Gimson's house.
I called Gimson.
Asked him to search for the game in his room.
He told me he couldn't find it anywhere.
I was damn furious and demanded another new copy of the game from him.
(Cause i was very certain that i left it in his room)
He refused.
That time i really was sibei buay song!
我以为他故意把那个game收起来，然后说“找不到”，就把它占为己有！
The dispute was about to reach its climax when all of a sudden there was a big hoo-ha.
Gimson called and told me his mom took it!
Gimson's mom thought it was his.
She confiscated it because she didn't want Gimson to play games.
(His mom is known to be very strict)
In the end, i had to call his mom personally.
To claim it back and also to prove that it was mine (In case Gimson is lying).
Ridiculous.
But it happened.

~RubberBall~
Certainly, i remembered this very clearly!
Initially, not many people in our class play soccer.
Only me and YongXian actually played soccer in primary school.
(Not sure whether i missed out KaiJie)
We bought a cheap 'black and white checkered' rubberball.
After school, me and YongXian went to a shelter under my block to kick around.
The next day, i brought the ball to school.
Was actually expecting more people to join us for soccer.
During recess, i think only me, YongXian, SiongChie, KaiJie and HengKa (not so sure) were interested, so we went over to the field to kick around.
We used the 'monkey bar' beside the volleyball court as our goal post.
(Eventually it became our favourite spot for shooting practice)
Then don't know where the fuck he appear from.
This 'kelong referee' (Muhd Fadly - 1 year senior than us) come over and sneered at us.
Mocking at our rubberball.
Really sibei Paisei.
I remembered he said aloud: "Big boys already still play with rubberballs."
Buay Song.
Buay Tahan.
But i humji.
So that was the last time we actually saw that rubberball.

~106 league~
Wa this part really hiong.
And Classic also. (2nd to Titanic)
I also don't know how to start.
The soccer culture in our class suddenly erupted to life!
Every single male in ur class actually got involved.
Even people like Thye Heng and Cheong JunJie also participated!
Utterly impressed!
It was the begining of our 'Golden Age'.

From index number 18 to 41:
18. Cheong JunJie (100 degrees Milo)
19. Stanley Chiang
20. Chuah TeongLeong (God)
21. Ee SongBei (De Goey)
22. Er SiongChie (Hiong/but now guai liao)
23. Goh ThyeHeng (Aaron Kwok 郭富城)
24. Hoh WeiJie
25. Lim HengKa (Ming Xin/Dua Extra)
26. Lim YongXian
27. Gimson Lin
28. Lin ZheXian (Bae Yong Joon)
29. Liu ZhiPeng (Mohd Abdul Anwar Ibrahim Bruise.../too long cannot write finish)
30. Neo Haw Yng (Fuck)
31. ME (Dua Bastard)
32. Ng ChongMing (Triple H)
33. Ng Tian Peng (Ash Ketchum - Pokemon Trainer/Completed Gold and Silver Version)
34. Pang XuXian (The Leopard)
35. Daniel Quek (Cow)
36. Quek YinKang (Billy)
37. Edward Sam
38. Soh KaiJie
39. Thomas Tan Wee Lin (PuiLin)
40. Wong JunJie (Brahma 猪)
41. Bryan Yeo

Total of 24 guys.
We formed a league consisting of 4 teams (We called them 'clubs').
6 players in each 'club'.
And each 'club' had its own manager/captain. (Forgot who were the 4 captains)
Games were played during recess and some after school.
We even had our own Transfer Market!
And we held our 'transfer talks' and negotiations during class lessons!
Example:
SiongChie worth $10m, KaiJie - $15m, HengKa - $12m...etc
"Eh i want to buy SiongChie over to my club for $8m...cheaper la..."
We also have our Top Scorers Chart, Man-of-the Match, Player of the Season, all the statistics from the games...etc...(too much i can't remb)
We had all these information recorded in a file and book! (Now lost liao can't find).
(Really is sibei Hiong 的enthu la!)

Still remember in one of those games,
(For those who don't know, when i mention JunJie/Jun means i am referring to Wong JunJie hor, if is Cheong JunJie i will just say Cheong.)
JunJie and WeiJie had a bad fight on the pitch.
Dua 打到很hiong, and i remembered the match had to be suspended

For some reasons, the league didn't last long. (i can't remember how it ended)
But our love for the game didn't stop us.
There are bound to be brawls and tiffs here and there.
Through these we will grow stronger.
The passion is there.
Passion and Desire to Win.
Will lead us to greater heights.

-weiyi-

It's not over yet, it's just the begining...

"...still remember last time TV got SportsCity, dua free one somemore, watch soccer and World Cup '98 watch until song...Now lei? HUMPH...bo wuay gong..."

Fortunate One

*
Just to sidetrack abit. Heh. Just managed to find out how to upload videos onto my posts (sibei noob). Also finally found the videos for the 垃圾车(朋友版) and 红日 MTV, really damn hard to find the 朋友版 for 垃圾车. And the 红日, look at 李克勤 also want to laugh.

Late at night.
I was searching through my WMP. For some reason, i came across this old song from Phil Collins, 'Another Day in Paradise'. It was a 1989 song if i am not wrong. The feeling was just...

Awe-inspiring.

This song reminded me of the following songs:
Heal the World (Children sufferings) - Michael Jackson
Earth Song (Environmental and political)- Michael Jackson
Fortunate Son (Vietnam War) - Creedence Clearwater Revival
Have You Ever Seen the Rain? (Vietnam War) - Creedence Clearwater Revival
Wrote a Song for Everyone (Vietnam War) - Creedence Clearwater Revival
Who'll Stop the Rain (Vietnam War) - Creedence Clearwater Revival
Give Peace a Chance (World Peace) - John Lennon
Shoot The Dog (War on Terror) - George Michael
There's a Hole in the World (September 11) - Eagles
Amani (World Peace)- Beyond
光辉岁月 (Racism) - Beyond

These are all politically acclaimed songs that deal with worldly issues which people seem to neglect.
True, they are all very nice and heart-rending songs that foster deep empathy.
But wouldn't it be nicer if it wouldn't exist at all?

“一山还有一山高”，on the other hand i think, “一山还有一山矮”.
Sometimes even ground zero.
There is always someone richer than you, and someone much poorer than you.
But most of the time we tend to forget the latter.
Well, maybe that's why our eyes are placed in front, which explains why we have to look foward in life.
When we climb up the stairs or ladder, we look up to our destination up ahead.
Seek out our goals, pursue our dreams, work towards our ambitions up ahead.
But how many of us actually stop for a moment and take a look back at the people left behind us?
We may be taking 3 steps up at a time, but some of the people behind are finding it hard to even take a single step up.

I have one person say: "I want a Lexus SC 430 convertible."
We have millions crying out: "We have no food and shelter."

Can you imagine how much ONE piece of bread means to millions of hunger-stricken people out there?
And how many millions is Bill Gates earning in ONE hour?
Sometimes we often look at the closed door that we fail to see the one that is opened.
Food.
Shelter.
Clothes.
Be thankful for what we have now.
Cause millions out there don't even have them.
Count your blessings, not your riches.

We may see the same sunrise everyday, but for many people out there, they may not even see the sunrise tomorrow.

"...i am not asking you to do something about it, but just take a moment to think about it. Just give it a thought. We are very fortunate indeed..."

Another Day in Paradise - Phil Collins

She calls out to the man on the street:
"Sir, can you help me?
It's cold and I'm nowhere to sleep.
There's somewehere you can tell me?"
He walks on, doesn't look back.
He pretends he can't hear her.
Starts to whistle as he crosses the street
Seems embarrassed to be there.

*Refrain:
Oh, think twice, cause it's another day for
You and me in paradise.
Oh, think twice, it's just another day for
You and me in paradise.
Think about it.

She calls out to the man on the street
He can see she's been crying
She's got blisters on the soles of her feet
She can't walk but she's tryin'.

Oh, Lord, is there nothing more anybody can do?
Oh, oh Lord, there must be something You can say

You can tell from the lines on her face
You can see that she's been there
Probably been moved on from every place 'cause she didn't fit in there.

Accept or Tolerate?

'Accept' and 'tolerate' may be two different words, but when they are used in a certain context, we may see that they are actually quite closely related. But yet again they are not similar, just separated by a thin line.
I used to think that 'accept' and 'tolerate' are more or less the same.
Often in our daily lives, when we are dealing with people, a certain level of tolerance will be accompanied by acceptance, likewise, to a certain level of acceptance, there is surely tolerance involved. Sounds more like a paradox. It is like saying that "standing is more tiring than walking", but aren't we also standing when we are walking?
(Hmm...fuck la.)
Go by the conventional way.
Check dictionary.

Accept:
-to accommodate or reconcile oneself to.
-to regard as true or sound.
-to regard as normal, suitable, or usual.

Tolerate:
-to bear or endure without repugnance; put up with.
-put up with something or somebody unpleasant.

So there is actually a big difference. The most crucial point to note is that there is actually a level of forced 'Tahan' involved in tolerance. And that Buay Tahan results from some Buay Song (discontentment/displeasure/anguish) which one is forced to endure or bear! So it means that one is compelled, constrained, or obliged to accept under some circumstances. Whereas to accept means that to bring yourself to an agreement or harmony willingly. There is no endurance or bearing involved, basically 'living with it'.

So when it comes to friendship:
Sometimes i wonder whether i am tolerating or i just merely accepted it. You may have realised that some people are just damned bastard/fucked up, everything he does and says just don't come in agreement with you, but still
Why do you still treat him as a friend?
Why do you still want to offer your help?
Why do you still want to talk to him?
Are you actually tolerating him or you have accepted him for what he is? Think think....sometimes i think it is because you have known that person for a long time (let's say 9 years), because of that you have already accepted him for who he is. Whereas if he is a someone new, then 他早就被打死了! If you have already accepted him, then just let him be and let it be. But if you are still tolerating a 'friend' of yours, then i think that's unhealthy to the friendship, as you are actually jeopardising the goodwill of your friendship.
How long can you tolerate?
One day everything is going to erupt. Do something about it. "Before he ends up behind the bars".

When it comes to relationship:
这个世界什么种人都有. Everyone is different.
This is the reason why people get together.
Sometimes we will hear our friends or people around us making comments like:
"Wa 那个男人这么haolian, 脾气又很坏，不知道为什么那个女人会喜欢他？"
"Wa 他这个人这么childish, 不懂为什么那个女人会跟他在一起？"
"Wa 他这么瘦又矮，而且又不handsome, 不知道为什么他的女朋友会喜欢他？"
"Ahyo 她才16岁，这么childish, 不知道他为什么喜欢她？"
"Hai 她一点都不漂亮lor，身材又cui, 人品又不好，为什么你会要跟她在一起？"
...and many more comments.

Sometimes we will wonder why this person so 'this' and 'that' and why people still like him/her. Well, i think i already have the answer above. It's because everyone is different.
Think about it. If everyone is the same and thinks alike, then it will be very terrible isn't it?
But we all know that it is not the case.
I am sure that there are girls out there who can accept guys who are egocentric; selfish; insensitive; lazy; immature...etc.
It all comes back to whether you can accept your partner for who he/she is.
And bear in mind that accepting means to live with it.
Can you live with his untidiness; his fury temper; his laziness; his insensitiveness; his stubborn character...etc?
Some people often say that: " I will try to tolerate and give in to him/her."
Well, how long can you tolerate? 10 years or 20 years?
How are you going to tolerate someone who is going to sleep beside you for the rest of your life?
Tolerance does not makes the relationship goes stronger. Instead i think it widens the gap between you and your partner, until it reaches a stage where the gap is too huge to bridge.
Too late.
Relationship is about bringing two people of two different lives together. Through the process of building a relationship, it involves accepting your partner's life into your life.
Two different lives growing into one.
The process is long.
Some may take 2years, 5 years,10 years or even more.
Some even never!
Then i think that's what i call destiny.
It's not meant to be.

Don't walk in front of me, don't walk behind me, i want you to walk beside me...

“要不是因为我们跟他是9年的朋友，不然的话，如果是外面不认识的人，早就Dua Buay Song打他了！”BAH！